How To Make Hickeys
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How To Make Hickeys

2 min read 04-02-2025
How To Make Hickeys

So, you want to know how to make hickeys? Let's be upfront: hickeys, also known as love bites, are essentially bruises caused by sucking or vigorous kissing on the skin. While they might be seen as a mark of affection by some, it's crucial to understand the mechanics involved and the potential risks before attempting to give or receive one.

Understanding the Science of the Hickey

A hickey is a form of contusion. When you suck on someone's skin, the tiny blood vessels (capillaries) under the surface break. This causes blood to leak into the surrounding tissue, resulting in the characteristic dark red or purplish discoloration. The size and intensity of the hickey depend on how hard and for how long the suction is applied.

Factors Affecting Hickey Formation:

  • Suction Intensity: The harder you suck, the more capillaries break, leading to a larger and darker hickey.
  • Duration: Longer suction periods increase the chance of more extensive bleeding and a more pronounced mark.
  • Skin Sensitivity: Some people have more delicate skin than others, making them more prone to easily bruised hickeys.
  • Blood Vessel Density: Areas with a higher density of blood vessels will likely show more noticeable discoloration.

How to Make a Hickey (Safely and Responsibly):

It's important to emphasize consent is crucial before attempting to give or receive a hickey. Without enthusiastic consent, this action can be considered assault.

Assuming enthusiastic consent from both parties, here's a basic overview of the process:

  1. Gentle Start: Begin with gentle suction. Don't immediately go for aggressive sucking.
  2. Observe the Reaction: Watch your partner's reaction closely. If they show any discomfort, stop immediately. Pain should never be involved.
  3. Adjust Pressure: Adjust the pressure based on their reaction. A light sucking motion is often sufficient to leave a mark without causing significant pain or bruising.
  4. Vary the Technique: Experiment with different techniques, such as gentle sucking, kissing, or light biting, to see what works best. Remember, the goal is a mark, not an injury.
  5. Duration is Key: Keep the suction relatively brief. Prolonged suction increases the risk of severe bruising.

Risks and Considerations:

While generally harmless, hickeys can carry several risks:

  • Pain: Although not always present, some individuals experience pain during and after hickey creation.
  • Bruising: The main effect, bruising can be quite noticeable and take several days or even weeks to fade.
  • Infection: Improper hygiene can lead to infection if the skin is broken. Ensure clean mouths and hands.
  • Social Implications: Hickeys can be embarrassing or unwelcome in many social settings. Consider the context and your partner's comfort level before attempting one.

Covering Up a Hickey:

If you or your partner is unhappy with the resulting hickey, there are ways to conceal it:

  • Makeup: Concealer and foundation can effectively cover up hickeys.
  • Clothing: Scarves, turtlenecks, or long-sleeved shirts can help hide a hickey on the neck.
  • Time: Hickeys fade over time, typically within a week or two.

Disclaimer: This information is for educational purposes only and should not be considered medical advice. Always prioritize consent and safety when engaging in intimate activities. If you experience excessive pain, prolonged bleeding, or signs of infection, consult a medical professional.

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